This is borne of frustration and likely should not be posted.

fiercelydreamed is doing a fantastic job at queerlygen (do come an join in, it's going to be great - I can tell these things), so this shouldn't be read as any sort of indictment of her and certainly isn't a call for people to come and 'help me out' in any way. The whole issue I'm going to talk about it is ongoing, so really this post will likely become irrelevant very quickly; I'm mostly making it because, if I don't, then it will be running round my head for the rest of the day and drive me up the wall.

( Asexuality 101, abridged, with minor rantiness. )